Some reviews


Why is it so difficult to meet somebody today?


In spite of all the networking possibilities and social media?

If you are Single, Divorced or Widowed and want to get back into the Dating game, if you're looking for that elusive partner, you will be interested to hear how a pro went about it. I was a matchmaker in Ireland and had my own dating agency. I'm sharing my experience and insider views with my readers. For more info see my book's website: www.NextTimeLucky.com!

I had the honor of being asked to come on the local NBC show First Coast Living twice in the last week to give dating advice. If you missed it, you can read all that stuff in my book.



Showing posts with label divorce. Show all posts
Showing posts with label divorce. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

The D Word





Ditched, dumped, divorced and yet you try all over again, pull yourself up by your stilettos and garters  and join the dating crowds again. History repeated all over, because we humans are built for love. A new musical written by the creators of Menopause depicts the happily Even after. It is hitting theaters nationwide. A Las Vegas party show where “ Mamma Mia” meets Sex And The City!” Does that sound like something you'd like?

The website promises that “It’s a laugh-out-loud celebration of newly single or recycled bachelor life that will have you singing and dancing along to the best break-up/make-up songs ever!” You can follow the four women, Erica, DeeDee , Kate and Jen who meet after a speed dating night on their dating trails.


“Next Time Lucky: How to find Your Mr. Right” could be script for this show. Cherie is a divorced woman on the rebound looking for a soul mate the second time round. Love @ first click is intoxicating. Have laptop ─ can travel! However it takes two to tango. Many a Mr. Right turns out only to be Mr. Right Now. Even her background as the owner of a dating agency doesn't prepare her for the characters she meets. She learns the hard way that it's easy come, uneasy go, in this online candy store of adult romantic dreams. Her story is an intriguing read and at times a raunchy ride around the world. With insight and humor, Next Time Lucky tells the sassy story of a woman's quest for a second chance in life, finding that our today's mate selection rituals have become a lot more complicated than kissing a few frogs. The second edition has an added brand new appendix packed with dating tips and invaluable information for online daters, based on my expertise as a dating counselor and my experiences as an internet dating pioneer. 

I've got to see the show!


Saturday, June 22, 2013

Why do long term couples split?

It doesn't take rocket science to solve that puzzle. 

Just got this article from the AARP, you my still find it worth reading:
http://www.aarp.org/relationships/love-sex/info-06-2010/naked-truth-long-term-marriages-end.html?cmp=NLC-WBLTR-NMCTRL-062113-HT1&USEG_ID=.
If and when you actually do split up form your partner-- or are getting unhitched as it may-- you should know that after the heart break and despair, at some stage, you will be ready to move on. And you deserve another chance! Not only the young ones are looking for love again...and that is by far the best good news:  the number of people who are getting divorced is increasing. So we have a bigger pool of available partners.
I learned that in my dating agency. Unfortunatley, statistics are often stacked against women, older women that is. Men often go for younger women and a trophy wife- if they can afford it. Men also die younger than women. Depending on where you live, there may just be fewer compatible men around. So we women have to be savvy and pull all the tricks to realize our best chances.
One big help is my book: Next Time Lucky: How to Fid Your Mr. Right. I wrote about my own personal and professional experience as a divorcee at 40+ and as a dating specialist.
Have a look and enjoy the book. You will find invaluable advice! www.NextTimelucky.com
and on Amazon
as well as B&N. EBooks are only $2.99 - well worth the money! Less than a signature coffee!