A Never Ending Story

Dating and finding love is a merry-go-round. Lucky the ones who are in the saddle already, installed in a loving relationship or marriage!

As a former matchmaker and dating consultant I’ve often been asked “Why has it become so difficult to find the right person? Where are the good men? What should I do to find that elusive mate?” The list goes on and on. In spite of our ever increasing connections, networking, and socializing possibilities the problem seems to grow. And it's not just older, divorced people who say they lack opportunities but also the younger generation that wants to settle down-- what I call the first timers.

At the beginning of a new year, after a boring –lonely—New Year’s Eve, many singles make a resolution that they want to find love now; the sooner the better. Definitely in time for Valentine’s Day that is looming on the horizon. Many websites catering to singles and their needs offer dating advice. I like Adventures in Delicious Dating for over 40s.

Sites that care about your personal well-being and happiness like Positively Positive, or Dr. Tranquility and her dating protocols are a quintessential step in getting help—if singles want it. Some of them advertize on my Facebook page Singles & Dating Advice. Check it out as well as my blog www.NextTimelucky.blogpsot.com.

There's also a gazillion books on the topic, self-help books and novels. Take  a peek at the category of Best Relationship Non-Fiction on Good reads. 74 books are listed and my book Next Time Lucky: Lessons of a Matchmaker  is #1. The need is there; the audience is there looking for answers.

That’s why I'm  relaunching my book Next Time Lucky: How to Find Your Mr. Right with an added  new chapter of practical dating tips. After all, I was a pro….I’ll be interviewed about my book again on Thursday between 6.30 – 7.00 P.M/EST by Dr. Tranquility’s on her blog talk radio show. Listeners and callers are welcome!

I’ll see you on the radio.

Siggy Buckley

NTL on another Pod Cast

Last night I had the great privilege of being asked to come onto the show of one of the premier experts in the business, Dr. Tranqulity, Lydia Belton. Her evening show airs at 6.30PM but the podcast is always available. She has a background in mental health; she is not a matchmaker but advises people and helps them by assessing their needs and what they have to offer. We had a great chat about dating as such, her approach to matching people up. For me it was an excellent opportunity to talk about my book, my background as a matchmaker and my experience as an online dater. Here's the link to this podcast. Enjoy our conversation, maybe youcan pick up a few bits of information!
Dr. Tramquility Lydia Belton can be reached at"

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Dr.Tranquility Relaxation protocols®
Developed by Lydia Belton PhD,Ct.H.A. of  DrTranquility.com, Date Therapy® is an 
effective protocol that helps people get in touch with the criteria for their ideal mate. 

DrTranquility's protocols® are featured
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Professional Interview with Wise Bear Productions

Absolutely loved the chance to appear on another blog talk interview, this time with Quinn Barrett of Wise Bear Productions: http://www.wisebearbooks.com/podcast-siggy-buckley/. If you have some moments to spare, listen in--it may be worth your while if you're looking for some info on dating being single or divorced. I love these podcasts, blabber mouth that I am. A chance to get some background information on my book www.NextTimeLucky.com and me as the author. Quinn, the interviewer, felt that my book as well as my webesites and page on Facebook contain useful information when it comes to dating. Spice up your life with a naughty book.
Happy dating!