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Why is it so difficult to meet somebody today?

In spite of all the networking possibilities and social media?

If you are Single, Divorced or Widowed and want to get back into the Dating game, if you're looking for that elusive partner, you will be interested to hear how a pro went about it. I was a matchmaker in Ireland and had my own dating agency. I'm sharing my experience and insider views with my readers. For more info see my book's website:!

I had the honor of being asked to come on the local NBC show First Coast Living twice in the last week to give dating advice. If you missed it, you can read all that stuff in my book.

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Setting Dating Goals


We all have set New Year's resolutions - weight loss, save money, be organized - but do you set relationship resolutions?

Think about it, have you been dating the same type of personality over and over with the same outcome? You end up alone. Maybe it's time to reflect on what type of person you should be dating.  You could start with a pros and cons list. What attributes or personality traits are non-negotiable? Humor, sarcasm, easy-going, spontaneous, energetic...  Which traits are you thinking you should stay away from? Needy, vanity, a spender, a drinker...

Ok, once you have your list, it's time to reflect, really make sure you've been honest with yourself. Don't beat yourself up, it may take a few tries to get your list realistic.  Remember, you're finally being honest with yourself. 

I  know, the bad boy is exciting - dangerous, unpredictable, exciting - but he also cheats and treats you like crap. I know, I know, the good guy is dull, predicable, and routine. There is a happy medium, you just have to look.

If you're straying away from your usual type to find a guy that not only lights your fire but treats you well, don't be surprised if it takes a few tries. We tend to fall back into old habits because its comfortable. You'll need to practice. 

Be patient with yourself and keep your list handy. Guard your heart, it isn't as picky as your head. It's easy to fall in love if you don't think about it, but remember, you're planning for a successful future. It's ok to fail along the way, but keep reaching for the stars. He's out there. 

Take 2 is Linda Bolton’s first novel is available on Amazon. She is currently working on her second book to be released spring 2014. When she’s not writing, Linda is a GiGi, playing with her new granddaughter Z, and working full-time. While working on a future projects Linda can be found:

1 comment:

Linda Bolton said...

Thanks you, Siggy, for hosting me! Always fun!