Do you believe in love at first sight? Has it ever happened to you?
If so, do you believe in love at first click? When you start online dating you often "click" with a person immediately. You seem to have a lot in common. He seems to understand you and react in a way that appeals to you. One often jumps into a closeness quickly that doesn't happen in real life that much. Not in my experience anyway. You feel safe --behind your computer. After all, it's pretty anonymous. Even the photo can be doctored up.
You then look forward to meeting this person online on a regular basis, at a certain time of day...after a long day; when you're too tired to go out or do much else. You even start to pour out your heart and open up.
Sounds great and familiar so far?
Then it comes to meeting in person. That is a big step to be undertaken with great caution. Am I being too cautious?
Next thing could be a phone call first. Still got the same feeling for that individual? You only know his voice. What does he look like? Like his picture ? I met people who had put on 30 pounds since or aged many dog years.
Good luck online--but take it easy....step by step!
If so, do you believe in love at first click? When you start online dating you often "click" with a person immediately. You seem to have a lot in common. He seems to understand you and react in a way that appeals to you. One often jumps into a closeness quickly that doesn't happen in real life that much. Not in my experience anyway. You feel safe --behind your computer. After all, it's pretty anonymous. Even the photo can be doctored up.
You then look forward to meeting this person online on a regular basis, at a certain time of day...after a long day; when you're too tired to go out or do much else. You even start to pour out your heart and open up.
Sounds great and familiar so far?
Then it comes to meeting in person. That is a big step to be undertaken with great caution. Am I being too cautious?
Next thing could be a phone call first. Still got the same feeling for that individual? You only know his voice. What does he look like? Like his picture ? I met people who had put on 30 pounds since or aged many dog years.
Good luck online--but take it easy....step by step!
