A new year ought to bring new chances and new opportunities--also in the dating game.
Is one of your New Year’s resolutions to find Mr. Right? Many a resolution is forgotten before Valentine’ s Day rolls around. Let me give you a few pointers so this doesn’t happen.
Like in any other realm of life, these changes won’t come about automatically. It’s the resolution s you’re making of maybe a new behavior behind it that brings the change. What can you do differently? Where else can you put yourself out in the world of dating? What new strategies could you try? Maybe all it takes is a change in attitude and expectations? Some self- reflection, scrutiny of one’s situation and a proactive effort to open up to new possibilities you haven’t considered before? Do you need to change your attitude a little, your activities or maybe even your looks? Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying you need to lose weight or undergo cosmetic surgery. Sometimes a new haircut, a new outfit can give you the boost you need to perk up new confidence and put a spring in your step.
Maybe you decide to give up on dating for a while after a bad experience. That’s ok too if that’s what you need and not a decision made out of loss of hope or fear of rejection.
Dating is a numbers game. Love doesn’t knock on your door while you’re sitting at home watching a sitcom with a take-away on your lap. Be proactive, invite laughter and love into your life. Be ready to spot it whenever you encounter it.
Why is it so difficult to meet somebody today?
In spite of all the networking possibilities and social media?
If you are Single, Divorced or Widowed and want to get back into the Dating game, if you're looking for that elusive partner, you will be interested to hear how a pro went about it. I was a matchmaker in Ireland and had my own dating agency. I'm sharing my experience and insider views with my readers. For more info see my book's website: www.NextTimeLucky.com!
I had the honor of being asked to come on the local NBC show First Coast Living twice in the last week to give dating advice. If you missed it, you can read all that stuff in my book.